Soaring High Cost Of House Rents

As the nation’s population increases, there is a manifest insufficiency of the availability of houses for them. Especially, as the rural-urban drift of the population becomes, largely uncontrollable.

Added to this, is the crave of Landlords of houses in these urban areas to continue to increase rents placed on living apartment they provide to members of the public. The tenants, therefore come under grave inconvenience.

The inconvenience, also include the landlord’s unwholesome desire for love and determination to evict a tenant who is unable to pay the new rent without the required period of quit notification of three months.

The situation is the same in all cities including Port Harcourt and its suburbs. There , a room’s monthly rent goes for between five thousand naira or more in the old Port Harcourt Township and three thousand, five hundred naira and more in other parts of the metropolis.

This is, however, different from a rather lower rent on houses charged in other cities like Ibadan, Aba, Owerri, Lagos and Warri.

Tenants, often times, are compelled to seek help elsewhere for financial support and sometimes, go borrowing to raise the required money to pay for the, rather, irrational rent in Port Harcourt.

But there are indications that respite may come the way of tenants, across the country, if the public pronouncement by the Attorney-General and Minister of Justice, Mr. Michael Aaandookaa, of the Federal Government of Nigeria, to checkmate the skyrocketing house rents across the country is vigorously enforced.

But would the needed commitment ever come?

If it does come, Landlords would not have the whims to exploit tenants anymore or for a very long time.

However, the public pronouncement has been greeted with a mixed feeling. But the feeling also accepted it as a position long expected.

They said it was a misnomer for Landlords to operate without a guide on their exploitative overtures and be allowed to make living unbearable for the tenants.

Workers are said to spend about 50% of their monthly income on rent alone in Port Harcourt and less in other metropolitan across the country.

Living apartments, often times, lack necessary facilities for the comfort of the tenants. The Landlords care less of this situation once they have collected their yearly rent.

There is the wonder why rents on a room should compete with the rent on one or two bedroom flats in other states.

This is a big problem and it is seen as a deliberate neglect by government to enforce the required standard. The outcry is that the Federal Government should speedily address the problem so that workers and other citizens can own property to make majority of the people not to be victims as well as tackle the house shortage challenge.

But some Landlords also reacted to the public pronouncement complaining that most tenants do not pay up their rent when it was due.

They also pinned the high rent on the high cost of building materials and maintenance which make them to request for one or two years up- front payment.

Some legal practitioners described the pronouncement as a verbal statement that does not have the force of Law.

They said the tenancy laws as adopted by the federating states, provide measures that are actionable in the event of a formal complain.

They said the Attorney general would need to consult widely with states and other stakeholders to achieve an effective and realistic rent in any state.

While it is observed that the existing laws are obsolete and needed to be reviewed, there is a wonder if what it would be reviewed soon. Is it what Mr. Michael Aaandookaa meant, when he made the public pronouncement? Or will he promulgate another?

The public would also need to know the proper definition on the short and long term lease tenancy laws.

Love Life Parents Should Live

  Love has remained the best gift parents can ever give to
their children.This is what is used to build a healthy family.

 

Demonstrable  love in the family need to be shown independent of how the husband and wife feel towards each.No agression is transferred to the children.

 

A chat with some parents reveals that whenever a querrell ensured, there is a momentary breakdown of communication,goodwill and ceasure of any pet name that they call themselves.

 

At such times, the snag is each party expects the other to put an apology forward first.

 

But if this is not repaired, the corrosion that eats deep into the fabric of the family life is disasterous.

 

Both the man and the woman need to be partners in this venture to achieve the needed result the partnership should achieve.

A great partnership it could be.

 

 The children,with the attractive love instinct,become dragged in into the nugget.They see the truth in the love that is  demonstrated by their parents.What they do not see of their parents at home they will not consider very important and useful.The love they see, moulds what type of love and  nurture, they should build.

 

 Sure, they could argue or querrell, but the maturity shown at such times also gives the children, melting heat of any doubt in their minds that any disagreement can be worked through and resolved.

 

If husband and wife do not get determined from the outset, to make their relationship work, worked hard at it and nurture it  over the
years to grow,it may not bud that love.

 

To build a very successful family life, when it gets manifested, could become the envy of the society in which they live.It may have taken tolerance,prayers,crying, rejection and lone times.Those may not be seen.

They may not also consider the prevalency of weakness in the strenght that is overt.

 

This is because husband and wife worked together, outlining their guiding rules that has cloud their weaknesses and  rather projected their strengths.

 

Such qualities count less when it comes to showing the concern,cuddling, attention and the play time that the family should share together.

 

Words matter.and the words teach, whether positively or
negatively.Uncomplimentary unglowing terms should be minimized if not afforded.

 

Orders must be kept within the frame of the sense of  flexibility both to the children and hired workmen.No negative banter on  issues.What the children see teaches them more about  about loving and respecting people.Build them with positive words to power their creativity.